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пятница, 28 февраля 2020 г.

The life-changing discovery of sober sex

It was love at first sip for Daisy Buchanan, alcohol just made everything so much better and drunk sex was the norm — until one relationship changed everything

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I’ve been married for almost five years – which, admittedly, is not that long – but I’ve learned some facts about myself that have surprised me. Firstly, that when I am spending the evening on the sofa with my beloved, I have a limited tolerance for most box sets but an unquenchable appetite for repeats of QI and Taskmaster. Secondly, I am not especially argumentative, but I am quick to hanger – we very rarely have proper, painful fights about the state of our union, but we can on occasion get a bit snippy when we’re trying to think of something we can have for tea that isn’t chips. Thirdly – only ever want to have sex when I’m sober. I can’t remember when I last had drunk sex, and that isn’t because I got hammered and passed out in the middle. Now that I’m in my thirties, I drink differently, and I think differently. Alcohol plays a very different role in my relationships and my life, and I feel much happier for it.

Like many people, I discovered alcohol in my teens. It was love at the first throat burning sip. This was the magic potion – the way that everyone else in the world managed to silence their cruel, critical inner voices, and cultivate confidence. Crucially it allowed me to drown out a lifetime of Catholic mass and complicated messages about my body, shame and hell. I was fed up of feeling prudish, timid and unsophisticated. When I drank, I could be wild. (It was fortunate that I grew up in rural Dorset, where opportunities for misbehaviour were pretty limited – you relied on available fields and good weather.)

When I arrived at university, I was surrounded by people whose attitude was almost identical to mine. We were enthusiastic, inexperienced, profoundly anxious and hoping that the availability of cheap alcohol would allow us to talk to strangers – and maybe sleep with them. This set the tone for my twenties. Alcohol was a near constant presence. Drinking was just what you did. Even when I found myself in long term relationships, our social lives would revolve around parties and pubs – and our sex lives were simply an extension of that. Nearly every Saturday night involved a drunken argument, and drunken make up sex.

Writer Daisy Buchanan (Photo Credit: Grace Plant)

When I met the man I would marry, there was no immediate reason for this pattern to change. For our first date, we went out for cocktails, then dinner. And our second. And our third. I think everything started to shift a little after that, when we bumped into each other a few hours after I’d left his flat and went for a sober afternoon ice cream in Soho Square. I realised it had changed dramatically when he met me at my house to go to the pub before a gig, and we went to bed instead. Soon, I was sneaking away from bars on nights out in order to go and see him – when I was used to putting off sex until after the bar closed. I truly loved being with him, and I could appreciate it so much more when I was clear headed. His tenderness and enthusiasm was so great that I forgot to feel self-conscious about my body. During drunk sex, I realised, my skin was slightly numb, Sober, I could feel everything.

Eventually I worked out that if I could have sex without having several glasses of wine first, I could do anything – from introducing myself to strangers at work events, to sober dancing. The change that transformed my sex life has transformed every area of my life. My memory has improved, my brain seems sharper and I feel much more productive.

I still drink occasionally in moderation, but I’ve learned to slowly savour one or two glasses of wine when I really want to celebrate, instead of frantically necking four or five glasses because it’s become a habit. Changing the way I drink has transformed my sex life and strengthened my marriage, but it’s also improved my relationship with myself. I have better orgasms, and I can attend a networking event while sticking to sparkling water – but most importantly of all, I’ve found the space to cultivate a kind inner voice which calls me out when I am being cruel to myself. It tells me that I don’t need to feel ashamed of my body, that I’m strong, and that I don’t need to reach for chemicals to drown out my thoughts and fears. It reminds me that my live is fun and thrilling, and that I owe it to myself to show up and pay attention. I never expected to embrace sober sex – but it has allowed be to build a life I love, and don’t want to escape from.

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To read the article in English. marieclaire.co.uk

пятница, 14 февраля 2020 г.

Watch A Guide to Second Date Sex film for free, here!

It’s Valentine’s Day, so we’re being kind and letting you stream the hot new film for free here (you’re welcome)

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Real, relatable sex is finally having its moment on screens and boy, are we here for it. Already binged the second series of Sex Education? Don’t panic – we’ve got another recommendation for you. New film, A Guide To Second Date Sex is out 20th April, and we’re giving Marie Claire readers an exclusive screening link to watch it in the comfort of your own home. All you need is popcorn and maybe a mate or two.

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An adaptation of Rachel Hiron’s critically acclaimed play, the film follows the story of Ryan (played by 1917 star George MacKay) and Laura (played by Sanditon actress Alexandra Roach) who meet at a London nightclub and drunkenly agree to a date. So far, so familiar, right? Both destroyed by previous long-term relationships, they’re hopeful of getting it right this time but soon discover just how bad a second date can go. Delving into the anxiety-ridden, messy world of dating and sex, it’s perfect Galentine’s fodder (and it’s not out until 20th April either so you’re seeing it well ahead of the masses).

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Just follow this link and use password ‘MarieClaireValentines’ to watch the film.

Happy Galentine’s!

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воскресенье, 23 февраля 2020 г.

#useyourvoice: ‘Masturbation has made me more confident with every soaring orgasm,’ says fashion influencer Style Me Sunday

Natalie Lee, founder of the Warrior Women project and co-host of The Everything Project podcast, was crippled with feelings of shame surrounding sex up until her thirties. Now she’s advocating why we all need to take control of our clitoris

Style Me Sunday
Natalie Lee

From a very young age I had associated sex with trauma after a particularly unpleasant event. Anyone who has experienced trauma will understand how it’s possible to become disassociated from your feelings generally, as you learn to shut them down as a way of coping.

Growing up in my household there was this veil of silence surrounding sex, it was hidden, it was painful and the unspoken nature of it only served to help develop it into something I took to be shameful. There are lots of other factors why I and many others associate sex with shame, especially as a female. Women who practise it freely and unapologetically are labelled dirty and used. I also think historically the role of religion and control has been a huge factor.

My early sexual encounters were about playing a role, a role that made me desirable to men, sex was a performance. Mostly re-enacted from the few bits of porn I’d seen. I screamed, I scratched, and I faked many orgasms. I had no idea that sex could or should be about my own gratification as well. I had no idea what a clitoris was.

So for most of life I’ve had mediocre sex. Sex wasn’t terrible, I enjoyed it, especially once I’d found my clitoris but it was very unexploratory. I was too self-conscious to do much other than missionary position.

Style Me Sunday

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Masturbation was definitely something shameful, too. I’d humped teddies as a kid, sometimes with my little friends, always, always in secret, away from adults and never, ever talked about. All I knew was it was something I shouldn’t be doing. Even as an adult I continued to think masturbation was disgusting, that if anyone knew what I was doing they’d have a negative opinion of me. It wasn’t until I reached my thirties that I began to understand masturbation was something fun, safe and normal. It allowed me to rediscover my body and increased my confidence in all areas of my life, including sexually.

Female pleasure is taking centre stage right now, and it’s about time. Women are demanding to be seen and heard and our sexual desires deserve to be taken seriously. There are porn sites made by and, overwhelming viewed by women, such as feminist erotic filmmaker Erika Lust. Even big brands are getting involved – Boots and Cult Beauty have a whole section devoted to sexual pleasure and wellbeing.

I want to talk to my daughters about sex as easy as it is to butter a slice of bread. I hope to make it an everyday topic of conversation and impress on them that sex is to be enjoyed by two mutually-consenting adults, it’s not dirty or shameful. That masturbation is extremely pleasurable, it’s completely natural. And I would wholeheartedly encourage them to explore their own bodies before anyone else gets the right to.

Masturbation has multiple proven benefits – increasing our confidence, self-esteem, helping us to sleep, reducing our stress levels and can be highly beneficial in relationships. Self pleasure has certainly increased my confidence with every soaring orgasm I’ve given myself and I will be forever grateful for finding out about the glorious delights of my clitoris.​

* Follow Natalie on Instagram @stylemesunday

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To read the article in English. marieclaire.co.uk

пятница, 18 сентября 2020 г.

The best sex toy deals happening right now, including $131 off an Ella Paradis Insider Exclusive Bundle

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The use of sex toys is steadily gaining popularity among our readers — and for good reason. Many experts view sex toys as an important tool in one’s sexual health: for use with or without a partner. 

Masturbation can help alleviate stress, help users relax, and can even help reduce the risk of prostate cancer. For those with partners, sex toys can be a useful tool for exploration and can help supplement the experience. 

Shopping for sex toys can be intimidating, as there are hundreds of options available. To help, we published a guide to the best sex toys of 2020 based on actual testing. If you’re looking to experiment with your first sex toy, or need an upgrade, here are the best deals currently available.

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пятница, 14 февраля 2020 г.

Why the F-ck Do We Swear During Sex?

A graphic of lips with swear words coming out of it
(Illustration: Leo Tapel)

You know the feeling: you’re in the middle of a passionate hookup, and your muscles start to tense. Your breathing gets heavy as waves of pleasure pulse throughout your body. As the feeling intensifies, you may start to shake and sweat. The moment just before euphoria hits, you suddenly blurt out “holy f-ck” as you come.

Congratulations—you just swore during sex.

According to Dr. Timothy B. Jay, a psychology professor at the Massachusetts College of Liberal Arts, shouting out profanities during an orgasm is perfectly normal. “It’s an emotional response some people emote sort of involuntarily,” he says. “Around orgasms, people might say things they’re not fully aware of, or it can be a habit that they do when they get excited.”

But why does “f-ck!” come out of our mouths when we f-ck? There isn’t one definitive answer, but experts say there’s a few reasons why.

Many of us learn to swear during sex

“Swearing is mainly the language of emotion,” Jay explains. “A lot of people use it as a way to either get out their own passion, or communicate passion to their partner.”

Unlike inborn expressions like grunting, crying and screaming, swearing is something that we learn to do as we develop, Jay says. If you were raised in a household where curse words were forbidden, you might not have learned to use them to express intense emotions, good or bad. Instead, you might use “holy cow” or “heck.” But if “shit,” “damn” and “f-ck” were words you heard growing up (or heard in movies), they’re likely a part of your lexicon as an adult. So even though cursing when you orgasm feels as natural as a moan, it’s actually a conditioned response.

“Our ability to swear is not innate,” Jay reiterates. “You have to learn how to do it.”  

…But biology is at play, too 

Before we blame Sex and the City reruns, it’s important to note that both sex and swearing tie into the same part our brains, says Daniel Almeida, a PhD candidate specializing in neuroscience and psychiatry at McGill University. While swearing is something we learn to do, once humans understand curse words, our instinct to drop an f-bomb comes from the same place an orgasm does.

“Research shows that swearing might involve brain structures that are not the same as regular language,” says Almeida. “Swearing is probably in a deeper part our brain known as the limbic system.”

The limbic system is the part of the brain that controls our instincts and emotions, explains Almeida. Within the limbic system is a smaller area of the brain known as the hypothalamus. When you climax, Almeida says, the hypothalamus releases endorphins. The hypothalamus (our climax control centre) is also where our instinct to swear comes from. Translation? When you reach orgasm, you might have an urge to swear. Thanks, brain.

Swearing heightens emotions

Just like an orgasm, swearing can also make you feel real good. “Swearing enhances our emotions—whatever they might be,” says Dr. Emma Byrne, author of Swearing Is Good for You. According to her research, swearing is an emotional “intensifier” humans use in both negative and positive situations—including sex.

“Swearing gives you an increased heart rate and more adrenaline courses through your nervous system,” she says. “So, if you’re feeling aroused and happy, you are going to intensify that with feeling with swearing.”

Bottom line? Swearing during sex is totes normal, and if you’re into it, you should yell f-ck from the rooftops.

Related:

“It Varies Between Having Sex, F-cking & Making Love”: 8 Millennial Women on Their Sex Lives
Cuffing Season Is Here—Have You Gotten Tested for STIs?
The 7 Best Vibrators to Try, If You’re Sorta Shy About Trying One 

The post Why the F-ck Do We Swear During Sex? appeared first on Flare.

Why the F-ck Do We Swear During Sex?

A graphic of lips with swear words coming out of it
(Illustration: Leo Tapel)

You know the feeling: you’re in the middle of a passionate hookup, and your muscles start to tense. Your breathing gets heavy as waves of pleasure pulse throughout your body. As the feeling intensifies, you may start to shake and sweat. The moment just before euphoria hits, you suddenly blurt out “holy f-ck” as you come.


Congratulations—you just swore during sex.


According to Dr. Timothy B. Jay, a psychology professor at the Massachusetts College of Liberal Arts, shouting out profanities during an orgasm is perfectly normal. “It’s an emotional response some people emote sort of involuntarily,” he says. “Around orgasms, people might say things they’re not fully aware of, or it can be a habit that they do when they get excited.”


But why does “f-ck!” come out of our mouths when we f-ck? There isn’t one definitive answer, but experts say there’s a few reasons why.


Many of us learn to swear during sex


“Swearing is mainly the language of emotion,” Jay explains. “A lot of people use it as a way to either get out their own passion, or communicate passion to their partner.”


Unlike inborn expressions like grunting, crying and screaming, swearing is something that we learn to do as we develop, Jay says. If you were raised in a household where curse words were forbidden, you might not have learned to use them to express intense emotions, good or bad. Instead, you might use “holy cow” or “heck.” But if “shit,” “damn” and “f-ck” were words you heard growing up (or heard in movies), they’re likely a part of your lexicon as an adult. So even though cursing when you orgasm feels as natural as a moan, it’s actually a conditioned response.


“Our ability to swear is not innate,” Jay reiterates. “You have to learn how to do it.”  


…But biology is at play, too 


Before we blame Sex and the City reruns, it’s important to note that both sex and swearing tie into the same part our brains, says Daniel Almeida, a PhD candidate specializing in neuroscience and psychiatry at McGill University. While swearing is something we learn to do, once humans understand curse words, our instinct to drop an f-bomb comes from the same place an orgasm does.


“Research shows that swearing might involve brain structures that are not the same as regular language,” says Almeida. “Swearing is probably in a deeper part our brain known as the limbic system.”


The limbic system is the part of the brain that controls our instincts and emotions, explains Almeida. Within the limbic system is a smaller area of the brain known as the hypothalamus. When you climax, Almeida says, the hypothalamus releases endorphins. The hypothalamus (our climax control centre) is also where our instinct to swear comes from. Translation? When you reach orgasm, you might have an urge to swear. Thanks, brain.


Swearing heightens emotions


Just like an orgasm, swearing can also make you feel real good. “Swearing enhances our emotions—whatever they might be,” says Dr. Emma Byrne, author of Swearing Is Good for You. According to her research, swearing is an emotional “intensifier” humans use in both negative and positive situations—including sex.


“Swearing gives you an increased heart rate and more adrenaline courses through your nervous system,” she says. “So, if you’re feeling aroused and happy, you are going to intensify that with feeling with swearing.”


Bottom line? Swearing during sex is totes normal, and if you’re into it, you should yell f-ck from the rooftops.



Related:


“It Varies Between Having Sex, F-cking & Making Love”: 8 Millennial Women on Their Sex Lives
Cuffing Season Is Here—Have You Gotten Tested for STIs?
The 7 Best Vibrators to Try, If You’re Sorta Shy About Trying One 


The post Why the F-ck Do We Swear During Sex? appeared first on Flare.

четверг, 17 сентября 2020 г.

No playing around: sex toy website blocked from sponsoring Dutch football club

It looks like while the Dutch are known for their liberalism when it comes to sex, corporate logos are taking it too far. The Dutch football club, Emmen, were told that they could not accept sponsorship from the erotic webshop EasyToys. 

The club had been on the hunt for a willing sponsor and were happy to receive an offer of sponsorship from EasyToys. However, when they sought approval from the Royal Dutch Football Association (KNVB), they were denied permission for sponsorship.

When a football team has sponsors, they wear the logo of the company on their shirts. The KNVB argued that the logo for an erotic website would not be appropriate. “It is not appropriate to display sponsorship from the sex industry on match kit. We must take in account that football is for both young and old.”

I never knew people could get hot and bothered about a corporate logo! Capitalism, you sexy thing.

Sex toys are uncomfortable in the Netherlands

In spite of the casual regard with which someone can pop in and watch a sex show, or solicit sex from someone else, it seems that the Netherlands is not ready for to go as far as sex toys yet. Especially the ones that are hidden behind a corporate logo.

EasyToys has said that they were surprised by the denial of sponsorship. Especially given that they already sponsor FC Groningen.

There are too many eyes on the backs of FC Emmen and it appears the KNVB doesn’t want them looking at this particular sponsorship. “We hoped that more positive attention for our webshop would contribute to breaking the taboo that still rests around our industry. The fact that eroticism and sexuality are still uncomfortable subjects for many is evident in the decision of the KNVB” chief executive officer Eric Idema, has said.

Hush, hush: KNVB didn’t even want to speak about it

Idema was particularly irked by the fact that KNVB didn’t even want to speak with him regarding the matter, reports RTV Drenthe.

“I had enough arguments to show the KNVB that the deal would be one out of good decency. I have a healthy company, where a lot of people work very hard. We have a turnover of 60 million and 200 employees. I really wanted to mean something for a club that I have a feeling for, I am a native of Emmen myself.”

FC Emmen for sex toys

FC Emmen has said on their website that they were disappointed to have the sponsorship denied and that they will continue to pursue it. “We will study the KNVB’s arguments and consider what to do next. In any case, we do not intend to drop a party that wants to become the main sponsor.”

It is uncertain whether EasyToys will take any further action but the company has been receiving offers of help, Idema says. “It is clear that I have already received a lot of phone calls and messages from lawyers who would love to assist us should we follow that process.”

Feature Image: Jack Wolters/ Wikimedia Commons/CC3.0

The post No playing around: sex toy website blocked from sponsoring Dutch football club appeared first on DutchReview.

Source: dutchreview.com

понедельник, 17 февраля 2020 г.

Rebecca Long-Bailey clarifies stance on women-only spaces and trans rights

Rebecca Long-Bailey’s team has clarified the Labour leadership contender’s position on same-sex spaces and the Equality Act 2010 to the New Statesman following her interview with Andrew Marr yesterday.


Long-Bailey supports reform of the 2004 Gender Recognition Act (GRA) to allow for trans people to self-identify as their preferred gender, as do all the candidate for the Labour leadership. Her team has clarified, however, that she would not reform the 2010 Equality Act, as has been reported following her interview with Marr.

In the increasingly heated debate over trans rights, confusion is widespread over the difference between what is covered by proposed reforms to the GRA to allow self-identification, as backed by Labour and the Liberal Democrats, and current provisions in the Equality Act.

The Equality Act identifies “gender reassignment”  (i.e. being trans: having a gender identify that is different to that assigned to you at birth) as a protected characteristic, but contains a lengthy proviso on provision for trans people in same-sex spaces:


Exception allowing single sex services to discriminate because of gender re-assignment

The third exception (Schedule 3, paragraph 28) allows providers of separate or single-sex services to provide a different service to, or to exclude, someone who has the protected characteristic of gender reassignment. This includes those who have a Gender Recognition Certificate (GRC), as well as someone who does not have a GRC but otherwise meets the definition under the Equality Act 2010.


Application of this exception must be objectively justified as a means of achieving a legitimate aim. An example given in the explanatory notes to the Act is that of a group counselling service for female victims of sexual assault where the organisers could exclude a woman with the protected characteristic of gender reassignment if they judge that clients would be unlikely to attend the session if she was there.


Schedule 23, paragraph 3 of the Equality Act 2010 also allows a service provider to exclude a person from dormitories or other shared sleeping accommodation, and to refuse services connected to providing this accommodation on grounds of sex or gender reassignment. As with paragraph 28 and other exceptions under the Equality Act, such exclusion must be a proportionate means of achieving a legitimate aim.


In other words, the law currently allows for the separate treatment, or exclusion, of trans people from single-sex spaces where it is deemed that providing the service to the trans person would be detrimental to providing the service to other users. The law is clear, however, that these spaces must proceed for a starting point of welcoming and respecting a trans person, and this exception can only be used on a case-by-case basis as “a proportionate means of achieving a legitimate aim.”


As it stands, there are no proposals from any political party to reform this aspect of the Equality Act. In the debate around proposed GRA reform, however, the two are often confused and conflated, with commentators frequently inferring that self-identification would allow for a self-identified trans woman to enter same-sex spaces with nothing in the law to allow service providers to prevent them. Given the Equality Act above, this is not the case.


The confusion over legislation on trans rights was evidenced by Marr asking Long-Bailey about the Equality Act and receiving an apparent answer about the GRA.


Marr: Now all of this, the law over-arching this, is the Equality Act of 2010, which is therefore of course a Labour act. That says that trans people, even if they have got identifying documents, can be excluded from certain women-only spaces. Given what you’ve said, would you change that law?


Long-Bailey: I do and I want a right to self-ID for trans people. It’s not an easy journey to go on as a trans person to determine changing your sex. We know the mental health issues that many within our trans community face and they’ve got extremely high suicide rates and we should never underestimate the pain that those individuals got through -


Marr: So you would change that law?


Long-Bailey: I want the right to self-ID and I want that enshrined in law.

It is understood that Long-Bailey did not mean to suggest she would reform the Equality Act. A spokesperson for Long-Bailey told the NS: “Rebecca said she supports legislating to introduce self-identification rights, which is existing Labour policy, and did not mention legislation on women’s-only spaces.”

Rebecca Long-Bailey clarifies stance on women-only spaces and trans rights

Rebecca Long-Bailey’s team has clarified the Labour leadership contender’s position on same-sex spaces and the Equality Act 2010 to the New Statesman following her interview with Andrew Marr yesterday.

Long-Bailey supports reform of the 2004 Gender Recognition Act (GRA) to allow for trans people to self-identify as their preferred gender, as do all the candidate for the Labour leadership. Her team has clarified, however, that she would not reform the 2010 Equality Act, as has been reported following her interview with Marr.

In the increasingly heated debate over trans rights, confusion is widespread over the difference between what is covered by proposed reforms to the GRA to allow self-identification, as backed by Labour and the Liberal Democrats, and current provisions in the Equality Act.

The Equality Act identifies “gender reassignment”  (i.e. being trans: having a gender identify that is different to that assigned to you at birth) as a protected characteristic, but contains a lengthy proviso on provision for trans people in same-sex spaces:

Exception allowing single sex services to discriminate because of gender re-assignment

The third exception (Schedule 3, paragraph 28) allows providers of separate or single-sex services to provide a different service to, or to exclude, someone who has the protected characteristic of gender reassignment. This includes those who have a Gender Recognition Certificate (GRC), as well as someone who does not have a GRC but otherwise meets the definition under the Equality Act 2010.

Application of this exception must be objectively justified as a means of achieving a legitimate aim. An example given in the explanatory notes to the Act is that of a group counselling service for female victims of sexual assault where the organisers could exclude a woman with the protected characteristic of gender reassignment if they judge that clients would be unlikely to attend the session if she was there.

Schedule 23, paragraph 3 of the Equality Act 2010 also allows a service provider to exclude a person from dormitories or other shared sleeping accommodation, and to refuse services connected to providing this accommodation on grounds of sex or gender reassignment. As with paragraph 28 and other exceptions under the Equality Act, such exclusion must be a proportionate means of achieving a legitimate aim.

In other words, the law currently allows for the separate treatment, or exclusion, of trans people from single-sex spaces where it is deemed that providing the service to the trans person would be detrimental to providing the service to other users. The law is clear, however, that these spaces must proceed for a starting point of welcoming and respecting a trans person, and this exception can only be used on a case-by-case basis as “a proportionate means of achieving a legitimate aim.”

As it stands, there are no proposals from any political party to reform this aspect of the Equality Act. In the debate around proposed GRA reform, however, the two are often confused and conflated, with commentators frequently inferring that self-identification would allow for a self-identified trans woman to enter same-sex spaces with nothing in the law to allow service providers to prevent them. Given the Equality Act above, this is not the case.

The confusion over legislation on trans rights was evidenced by Marr asking Long-Bailey about the Equality Act and receiving an apparent answer about the GRA.

Marr: Now all of this, the law over-arching this, is the Equality Act of 2010, which is therefore of course a Labour act. That says that trans people, even if they have got identifying documents, can be excluded from certain women-only spaces. Given what you’ve said, would you change that law?

Long-Bailey: I do and I want a right to self-ID for trans people. It’s not an easy journey to go on as a trans person to determine changing your sex. We know the mental health issues that many within our trans community face and they’ve got extremely high suicide rates and we should never underestimate the pain that those individuals got through —

Marr: So you would change that law?

Long-Bailey: I want the right to self-ID and I want that enshrined in law.

It is understood that Long-Bailey did not mean to suggest she would reform the Equality Act. A spokesperson for Long-Bailey told the NS: “Rebecca said she supports legislating to introduce self-identification rights, which is existing Labour policy, and did not mention legislation on women’s-only spaces.”

вторник, 11 февраля 2020 г.

8 Events Not To Miss At Women Of The World 2020

WOW Presents a Mayoral Debate

Southbank Centre’s Women of the World Festival returns in March for its tenth year, with a host of events looking at the state of gender equality across the globe today. The programme’s an impressive one, with talks, mentoring sessions, Q&A panels, a marketplace and more — some events are included in day passes, while others are ticketed separately. These are some of our top picks which still have tickets available at time of writing.

Invisible Women by Caroline Criado Perez

Feminist activist and journalist Caroline Criado Perez is best known for her campaigns to get more women on British banknotes, and for a sculpture of a woman in Parliament Square. Both were successful (Jane Austen and Millicent Fawcett respectively), though she was the recipient of sustained harassment on Twitter as a result — which led to Twitter improving its complaints procedure. Basically, she’s a one-woman force to be reckoned with.

Hear her talk about her new book, Invisible Women, which reveals how the world has been built largely by and for men, including in areas of government policy, medical research and urban planning.

Invisible Women. £25, 6 March 2020.

Desi: Out And Proud

LGBTQ+ members of the Desi (Indian diaspora) community offer an insight into their lives. The panel for this event includes activist and author Samra Habib, Britain’s first out Muslim drag queen Asifa Lahore, and broadcaster and DJ Ritu Khurana, who chat about topics including cultural taboos, family dramas, drag queens and sex.

Desi: Out and Proud. Included in Friday pass, 6 March 2020.

Me and White Supremacy

Women of all backgrounds are invited to hear anti-racism educator Layla Saad discussing her new book, Me and White Supremacy, with WOW founder Jude Kelly. Find out what white supremacy is, and if you’re in a position to do so, how to use your own privilege to challenge racism and injustice.

Me and White Supremacy. Included in Friday pass, 6 March 2020.

WOW presents a Mayoral Debate

WOW has taken the rather ambitious step of getting the main candidates for the upcoming London Mayoral Election together for a debate about what they would do to improve the lives of women. The impressive line-up includes Conservative candidate Shaun Bailey, Liberal Democrat candidate Siobhan Benita, Green Party candidate Siân Berry, Women’s Equality Party candidate Sue Black, Labour candidate and Mayor of London Sadiq Khan, and Independent candidate Rory Stewart.

They discuss topics including the gender pay gap, the cost of childcare, women’s health, and the NHS.

Mayoral Debate. Included in Friday pass, 6 March 2020.

The Guilty Feminist at WOW

Deborah Frances-White’s podcast, The Guilty Feminist, has picked up quite a following thanks to its frank discussions of what it means to be a feminist in the 21st century. For a Women of the World special, Frances-White records an episode live in front of an audience, with her co-host, actress and writer Susie Wokoma.

The Guilty Feminist at WOW. £18-£38, 7 March 2020.

The C Word

Hear from women who have survived breast cancer, including entrepreneur Leanne Pero and Samantha Vale, founder of support platform Boobless. 55,000 women in the UK are diagnosed with breast cancer each year, with 11,500 dying from the disease. Hear about the effects that cancer had on these women’s lives and families, how the experience changed them, and find out what support is available for anyone affected by breast cancer.

The C Word. Included in Saturday pass, 7 March 2020.

Flo Perry: How To Have Feminist Sex

Flo Perry, writer and illustrator of How to Have Feminist Sex, leads a talk which challenges women to rethink what sex ‘should’ look like.

Paisley Gilmour, sex and relationships editor at Cosmopolitan UK, chairs the event, with Triple Cripples co-founder Kym Oliver and Soul Sutras founder Sangeeta Pillai also taking part, debunking the myths and stereotypes about sex that we are exposed to via the media, our friends, and porn.

How To Have Feminist Sex. Included in Saturday pass, 7 March 2020.

The Beauty Myth: 30 Years On

30 years since she wrote The Beauty Myth, journalist and feminist activist Naomi Wolf is back to discuss the work, which uncovered why many women are consumed by the pursuit of beauty. Freelance writer and plus-size fashion blogger Stephanie Yeboah, and gender identity activist Levi Hord are among those joining Wolf to talk about what’s changed in the last three decades, and how much of The Beauty Myth still applies to Generation Z.

The Beauty Myth: 30 Years On. £25, 8 March.


Women of the World is at Southbank Centre, 6-8 March 2020. Full programme available online, most events require booking.

вторник, 3 марта 2020 г.

Vatican Sends Top 2 Sex Crimes Investigators to Mexico

VATICAN CITY — The Vatican is sending its top two sex crimes investigators to Mexico on a fact-finding and assistance mission as the Catholic hierarchy in the world’s second-largest Catholic country begins to reckon with decades of clergy sex abuse and cover-up.

Archbishop Charles Scicluna and Monsignor Jordi Bertomeo teamed up in 2018 to investigate the Chilean church and its wretched record of protecting pedophile priests — a bombshell expose that resulted in every active Chilean bishop offering to resign.

Their new mission to Mexico, due to take place March 20-27, was announced Monday in Mexico and at the Vatican. Officials stressed it was not an investigation per se but an assistance mission to help the Mexican church combat abuse.

Nevertheless, the Vatican embassy in Mexico City expressly asked victims to come forward to speak with the two prelates, offering victims an email address to send their testimony, a phone number to call and total privacy and confidentiality.

When Scicluna and Bertomeo went to Chile, ostensibly to investigate a single old case of cover-up, they were stunned as more than 60 victims came forward to speak with them about a variety of cases around the country, providing enough testimony and evidence to fill a 2,600-page dossier.

Their report was crucial in helping Pope Francis understand he had completely misread the problem of sex abuse and coverup in the church. The Argentine Jesuit apologized repeatedly and has taken measures in particular to try to ensure more accountability among bishops.

The Mexican bishops conference said it asked for the mission, saying it would benefit children and the most vulnerable in Mexico.

“We are certain it will help us respond better to these cases, looking for civil and canonical justice under the principle of ‘zero tolerance’ so that there is no impunity in our church,” the bishops said in a statement.

Scicluna and Bertomeo will meet with the Mexican bishops as well as the superiors of religious orders in Mexico, as well as any victims that choose to speak to them.

Their mission comes as the Mexican hierarchy is beginning to reckon with decades of sex abuse and coverup, admitting recently that it had investigated 271 priests in the last 10 years for sexual abuse.

The admission, though, was belated and came as Mexican civil authorities begin to ratchet up pressure after long deferring to the church, which wields enormous influence in Mexico. But earlier this year, Mexico’s lower Chamber of Deputies approved a proposal to remove the statute of limitations for child sexual abuse cases. The Senate still needs to vote on it but it is expected to pass.

In addition, two senators presented a legislative initiative to create an independent investigatory commission into clerical sex abuse in Mexico. It’s fate, however, is unclear. The senators belong to the Morena party of President Andres Manuel López Obrador, but there is no timetable for voting and other party lawmakers have spoken out agains the proposal.

Mexico is the second-largest Catholic country after Brazil, and Vatican officials have long known that the number of cases that were being reported to the Vatican of abuse were a fraction of the total.

Victims, however, are beginning to come forward, none more vocally than Ana Lucia Salazar, a Mexican TV personality who was molested repeatedly as a child by a Legion of Christ priest in Cancun. Her case was covered up for three decades until she went public last year, drawing so much attention to the problem that she forced Mexico’s bishops and the Vatican ambassador to denounce the Legion publicly.

Scicluna, the Vatican’s longtime sex crimes prosecutor, is intimately familiar with the Legion and the mechanisms of power in the Mexican hierarchy: The Maltese archbishop conducted the 2002-2003 investigation into the Legion’s late founder, the Rev. Marcial Maciel, that resulted in him being forced to retire to a life of penance and prayer for having raped and molested his seminarians.

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понедельник, 23 ноября 2020 г.

Female Teacher Jailed for 20 Years for Child Sex Crimes

Female Teacher Jailed for 20 Years for Child Sex Crimes
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THE female Teacher has been jailed for 20 years for child sex crimes after pleading guilty.

Leticia Lowery aged 40, pled guilty to multiple sex crimes against children. Lowery is from Montgomery County, Texas, and pled guilty to charges against her. She admitted to having sex with a boy aged 15, and to forcing a girl aged 13, to perform a sex act on the boy.

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Lowery has been jailed for 20 years. There are also cyber grooming crimes linked to Lowery, where she alleged sent sexually explicit images to a minor. Lowery's plea, meant that the children were not subjected to having to testify in court.

Laura Bond, Assistant District Attorney said, "I think often times when people hear about offenses that are committed by a female against a male child, people tend to minimize it but the effect on the child is still the same.

"Her taking responsibility and preventing 20 years in prison is a statement on the fact she knew what Montgomery County and the community and jurors would've sentenced her"


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вторник, 11 февраля 2020 г.

8 Events Not To Miss At Women Of The World 2020



WOW Presents a Mayoral Debate


Southbank Centre's Women of the World Festival returns in March for its tenth year, with a host of events looking at the state of gender equality across the globe today. The programme's an impressive one, with talks, mentoring sessions, Q&A panels, a marketplace and more — some events are included in day passes, while others are ticketed separately. These are some of our top picks which still have tickets available at time of writing.


Invisible Women by Caroline Criado Perez



Feminist activist and journalist Caroline Criado Perez is best known for her campaigns to get more women on British banknotes, and for a sculpture of a woman in Parliament Square. Both were successful (Jane Austen and Millicent Fawcett respectively), though she was the recipient of sustained harassment on Twitter as a result — which led to Twitter improving its complaints procedure. Basically, she's a one-woman force to be reckoned with.


Hear her talk about her new book, Invisible Women, which reveals how the world has been built largely by and for men, including in areas of government policy, medical research and urban planning.


Invisible Women. £25, 6 March 2020.


Desi: Out And Proud



LGBTQ+ members of the Desi (Indian diaspora) community offer an insight into their lives. The panel for this event includes activist and author Samra Habib, Britain’s first out Muslim drag queen Asifa Lahore, and broadcaster and DJ Ritu Khurana, who chat about topics including cultural taboos, family dramas, drag queens and sex.


Desi: Out and Proud. Included in Friday pass, 6 March 2020.


Me and White Supremacy



Women of all backgrounds are invited to hear anti-racism educator Layla Saad discussing her new book, Me and White Supremacy, with WOW founder Jude Kelly. Find out what white supremacy is, and if you're in a position to do so, how to use your own privilege to challenge racism and injustice.


Me and White Supremacy. Included in Friday pass, 6 March 2020.


WOW presents a Mayoral Debate


WOW has taken the rather ambitious step of getting the main candidates for the upcoming London Mayoral Election together for a debate about what they would do to improve the lives of women. The impressive line-up includes Conservative candidate Shaun Bailey, Liberal Democrat candidate Siobhan Benita, Green Party candidate Siân Berry, Women’s Equality Party candidate Sue Black, Labour candidate and Mayor of London Sadiq Khan, and Independent candidate Rory Stewart.


They discuss topics including the gender pay gap, the cost of childcare, women's health, and the NHS.


Mayoral Debate. Included in Friday pass, 6 March 2020.


The Guilty Feminist at WOW



Deborah Frances-White's podcast, The Guilty Feminist, has picked up quite a following thanks to its frank discussions of what it means to be a feminist in the 21st century. For a Women of the World special, Frances-White records an episode live in front of an audience, with her co-host, actress and writer Susie Wokoma.


The Guilty Feminist at WOW. £18-£38, 7 March 2020.


The C Word



Hear from women who have survived breast cancer, including entrepreneur Leanne Pero and Samantha Vale, founder of support platform Boobless. 55,000 women in the UK are diagnosed with breast cancer each year, with 11,500 dying from the disease. Hear about the effects that cancer had on these women's lives and families, how the experience changed them, and find out what support is available for anyone affected by breast cancer.


The C Word. Included in Saturday pass, 7 March 2020.


Flo Perry: How To Have Feminist Sex



Flo Perry, writer and illustrator of How to Have Feminist Sex, leads a talk which challenges women to rethink what sex 'should' look like.


Paisley Gilmour, sex and relationships editor at Cosmopolitan UK, chairs the event, with Triple Cripples co-founder Kym Oliver and Soul Sutras founder Sangeeta Pillai also taking part, debunking the myths and stereotypes about sex that we are exposed to via the media, our friends, and porn.


How To Have Feminist Sex. Included in Saturday pass, 7 March 2020.


The Beauty Myth: 30 Years On



30 years since she wrote The Beauty Myth, journalist and feminist activist Naomi Wolf is back to discuss the work, which uncovered why many women are consumed by the pursuit of beauty. Freelance writer and plus-size fashion blogger Stephanie Yeboah, and gender identity activist Levi Hord are among those joining Wolf to talk about what's changed in the last three decades, and how much of The Beauty Myth still applies to Generation Z.


The Beauty Myth: 30 Years On. £25, 8 March.




Women of the World is at Southbank Centre, 6-8 March 2020. Full programme available online, most events require booking.



четверг, 13 февраля 2020 г.

Tanya Reynolds: 'I'm working on not needing validation from other people'

Sex Education’s Tanya Reynolds on female friendships, imposter syndrome and why she’s glad she didn’t get into drama school the first time round…

Tanya Reynolds
Photo Credit: Sex Education

As Sex Education’s sci-fi-loving Lily Iglehart she’s used to raising a few eyebrows, but this time around it’s Tanya Reynold’s latest play that’s got people talking – and for all the right reasons. Making her theatre debut at London’s Royal Court Theatre to rave reviews, Tanya, 28, is (temporarily) leaving the world of alien erotica behind to play Tosh in Scenes With Girls. Clearly, it’s her year. With Sex Education’s second series now available on Netflix (a third series has already been confirmed) this month saw Tanya making her first major film appearance, playing the much-loved Mrs Elton in this year’s big-screen adaptation of Emma. Here, Tanya fills us in on the journey…

Scenes With Girls explores the complicated world of female friendships. Do you think the way female friendships are portrayed is changing?

Yes, one of the things I love about this play is that it’s about friendship. When I first read it, I thought it was going to be romantic. There’s a point halfway through where you think, ‘Hang on, is she in /love/ with her?’. You don’t expect stories just be about friends – often that’s the subplot to a romantic plot and friendship is just in the background. Whereas the whole narrative here is about friendship and just how important, messy and ugly it is. But ultimately how beautiful and worth it is, too.  

Presumably that’s something you have experience of?

Yeah, a few of my friendships have been holding me for the last couple of years and plays like this make you really appreciate them and think about them in a different way. We can collide and be angry and fall out, but when you do fall out with a best friend it’s so much harder than breaking up with someone.

How terrifying is it appearing on stage compared to Sex Education?

There’s something about being on stage that’s obviously terrifying because it’s so immediate. If you forget your lines or something terrible happens, people are watching you! But actually, I’m more nervous behind a camera. I think on stage it’s survival – you just have to get through it. Whereas on set, you do something funny and there’s silence. I adore both of them, they’re equally terrifying and delicious in completely different ways.

Were you worried about tackling the topic of sex on screen?

I actually wasn’t, I had so much faith in the script – you could tell it was such a well-crafted piece. They run things past you, asking if you’d be OK with scenes of a certain nature – like a masturbation scene – and I didn’t question any of it. I love Ben Taylor as a director and knowing his previous work, you know it’s going to be handled well. And it really was.

How was your first day on set? 

I found out I got the job on Thursday and my first day was Monday. There was a moment I wasn’t sure if I was going to be able to do it because there was a chance it clashed with another job. On my first day I went to Wales to have a costume fitting and met the cast who were already filming but I couldn’t allow myself to get too excited – thankfully it worked out. I spent the whole weekend bingeing BattleStar Galactica because in an early draft that Lily was really into it.

Were you nervous at all?

I was so excited and nervous. I’d auditioned for it four times, it was a long process. The night before I called my best mate like, ‘What if they sack me? What if I’m shit?’ I was freaking out because I wanted it /so/ much. My friend wisely said, ‘For there to be a reality where you fuck up and they sack you, there also has to be a reality in which the opposite happens and you do a really good job. So which reality would you rather live in?’ I was like, ‘That’s fucking genius!’ My first day on set was with Ncuti [Gatwa] where I flash my boobs and try and get him to have sex with me…

How did you feel about friends and family watching those scenes?

I did warn them about my nudity in the first series but my parents love this show – and not just because I’m in it. They’re incredibly supportive but it boggles their minds a bit as they’re not the kind of people to do anything like this. They sent me to after-school drama club and came to all my plays. I think they always wished they could have done more and perhaps felt a bit impotent because it wasn’t a world they knew. It wasn’t like they had any contacts.

I read you got a scholarship to drama school [Oxford School of Drama]?

Yeah, it was great because I went to university first and Oxford was the only drama school that offered scholarships to postgraduate students. It was quite overwhelming I managed to go – I didn’t think I’d be able to afford it. Studying drama at university is very different to actor training. I loved my uni course because it was very focused on theatre-making and playwriting. I originally auditioned for drama school when I left but didn’t get in anywhere.

Tanya Reynolds

Photo Credit: Netflix

Considering your success now, it’s quite amazing you didn’t get in?

To be fair, I’m glad I didn’t because a lot of my feedback was, ‘You’re too young, go and have a bit of a life’. And it’s true – when I think back to auditioning, I was 21 having just left university and had no idea about anything, or who I was. I would have been a really boring actor, I wasn’t ready for it. Although I only went a year later, that year made a fucking /mountain/ of difference. I think when I first auditioned there was a bit of desperation, like, ‘Validate me! Tell me I’m good!’ But getting into drama school isn’t about how good you are, it’s about how much you’re willing to learn.

Do you read reviews?

At first I was like, ‘I’m not going to read reviews because I believe in it’. That lasted all of 20 minutes! I didn’t want to be thrown off by them but maybe I was lucky because the reviews have been really nice. There were only two that weren’t four or five stars, and I understood what they were saying.

Reviews are subjective, anyway…

Yeah. As an actor, we’re all incredibly insecure human beings and I’m maybe one of the most insecure. I’m working on developing, and not needing validation from other people. But it’s a work in progress.

Working in such a demanding industry, how do you stay sane?

I have timers on my social media apps so I don’t spend too long on them. I read a lot and I like doing things creatively that don’t necessarily have an end goal, like taking photos. As actors you often tie your work and identity to each other, which can be painful because if you’re not working you lose your identity. Just before I got Sex Education, I was working as front of house at Secret Cinema, after I’d done two seasons of Delicious [with Dawn French]. You can’t associate your worth with whether you’re working, or what you’re working on.

I read you journal sometimes. Do you look back on what you’ve written?

Yes, I find it really helpful. If I’m going through something difficult I’ll think back to a time that was also difficult and see how I dealt with it. It’s reassuring to see yourself come out the other side. For me, writing is the best form of therapy, apart from /actual/ therapy. There’s something about it that’s so untangling. I’m quite a self-conscious person, but when I’m writing it’s the one place I’m not.

Does that mean we can expect scripts from you in the future?

100%. In the last couple of years I’ve realised it’s something I really want to do. I need to be proactive about because I have that thing where you’re searching for something that isn’t there…because it doesn’t exist yet.

Specific roles, you mean?

Yeah, specific roles and stories. But they can’t exist because they’re solely in your head. So you’re like, ‘Oh OK, I have to make them for myself’. There are so many stories I want to tell that I haven’t seen much of and I want to go about telling them.

Sex Education series 2 is available on Netflix; Emma is released on February 14; Scenes with Girls, Royal Court, London SW1, until February 22.

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четверг, 18 июня 2020 г.

The Trump administration’s flawed plan to destroy the internet as we know it

Attorney General Bill Barr. This week, Attorney General Bill Barr released a set of recommendations for new legislation that would limit the immunity offered by Section 230. | Nicholas Kamm / AFP via Getty Images

Following the president's lead, Republicans are all trying to chip away at Section 230.

Section 230, the law that is often credited as the reason why the internet as we know it exists, could be facing its greatest threat yet. A seemingly coordinated attack on the law is unfolding this week from the Trump administration and Republicans in Congress. It follows complaints that platforms such as Facebook, Twitter, and YouTube unfairly censor conservative speech. Though some are framing the efforts as a way to promote free speech, others say the result will be exactly the opposite.

Following President Trump's executive order aimed at social media companies he thinks are censoring right-wing voices, the most direct actions taken against Section 230 arrived this week in the form of a new bill from Sen. Josh Hawley and a set of recommendations from Attorney General Bill Barr.

Hawley, a 40-year-old Republican from Missouri who has made no secret of his intentions regarding Section 230, is proposing a bill that would require large platforms to enforce their rules equally to stop a perceived targeting of conservatives and conservative commentary. Hawley is also rumored to be preparing another Section 230-related bill to add to his growing collection.

Meanwhile, Barr's Department of Justice said it is calling for new legislation that, in certain cases, would remove the civil liability protections offered by Section 230. If platforms like Facebook, Google, and Twitter somehow encouraged content that violates federal law, these platforms would be treated as "bad samaritans" and would lose the immunity offered by Section 230. Like Hawley's bill, the DOJ's proposed rules would also force platforms to clearly define and equally enforce content rules.

Civil rights advocates say they're concerned that some of these proposed measures may end up becoming law, leading to all sorts of unintended consequences and stifling speech — which will ultimately punish internet users far more than the websites.

"I do think there is a very serious risk to Section 230 right now," Kathleen Ruane, senior legislative counsel at the American Civil Liberties Union (ACLU), told Recode. "And they all concern me, not for the platforms, but for users and online free expression."

Section 230, briefly explained

Section 230 is part of the Communications Decency Act of 1996. It says internet platforms that host third-party content are not civilly liable for that content. There are a few exceptions, such as intellectual property or content related to sex trafficking, but otherwise the law allows platforms to be as hands-off as they want to be with user-generated content.

Here's an example: If a Twitter user were to tweet something defamatory, the user could be sued for libel, but Twitter itself could not. This law has allowed websites and services that rely on user-generated content to exist and grow. If these sites could be held responsible for the actions of their users, they would either have to strictly moderate everything those users produce — which is impossible at scale — or not host any third-party content at all. Either way, the demise of Section 230 could be the end of sites like Facebook, Twitter, Reddit, YouTube, Yelp, forums, message boards, and basically any platform that's based on user-generated content.

The law also gives those services that immunity even if they moderate certain content. This is why, for instance, Twitter can take down tweets that it deems in violation of its terms of service. Sen. Ron Wyden, who was one of the architects of Section 230, has likened these provisions to a sword and shield for platforms.

But as some of these platforms have increased in size, scope, and power, there has been increasing support on both sides of the aisle to chip away at the law that allowed them to flourish free of much accountability.

Democrats have supported laws that crack down on websites that facilitate sexual abuse. The Allow States and Victims to Fight Online Sex Trafficking Act (FOSTA) and the Stop Enabling Sex Traffickers Act (SESTA) made platforms legally responsible for third-party content related to sex trafficking. The two bills, known together as FOSTA-SESTA, overwhelmingly passed in the House and Senate, and President Trump signed them into law in 2018.

More recently, there's the bipartisan Eliminating Abusive and Rampant Neglect of Internet Technologies Act (EARN IT), which would require companies to follow a yet-to-be-defined set of "best practices" or else lose Section 230 immunity if third parties post child pornography on their platforms. Civil rights advocates worry what those "best practices" will be and how they might stifle all speech.

Josh Hawley's crusade for a different internet

Many Republicans see altering Section 230 as a way to force platforms to fit their definition of "politically neutral." Typically, this translates into restricting a website or service's ability to moderate content.

This seems to be the goal of Hawley's bill, which is called the Limiting Section 230 Immunity to Good Samaritans Act. Cosponsored by Republican Sens. Marco Rubio, Mike Braun, Tom Cotton, and Kelly Loeffler, the bill would force large tech companies — that is, companies that have 30 million American users or 300 million users worldwide, as well as $1.5 billion annual revenue — to act in "good faith" when enforcing their content rules. Acting in "good faith" here means that platforms must clearly define what their rules are and enforce them consistently, rather than, say, targeting certain types of political speech, as some conservatives believe they currently do.

Users who feel that their content is being unfairly removed would also have a new tool for reprisal. Hawley's bill gives individual users who believe they're being censored the right to sue companies for at least $5,000 as well as attorney's fees. You can imagine how many people would be happy to take advantage of that, which would give platforms a big incentive to comply lest they be flooded with millions of lawsuits.

"It is impossible to moderate user-generated content at scale perfectly, or even well, and this bill would weaponize mistakes," Aaron Mackey, staff attorney for the Electronic Frontier Foundation, told Recode. "There are legitimate concerns about the dominance of a handful of online platforms and their power to limit internet users' speech. But rather than addressing those concerns, this bill bluntly encourages frivolous litigation and will lead to massive trolling."

This isn't Republicans' only recent attempt at limiting Section 230. In 2019, Hawley introduced the Ending Support for Internet Censorship Act, which would have required the Federal Trade Commission to declare platforms unbiased to get Section 230 protections. The same year, Rep. Louie Gohmert introduced the Biased Algorithm Deterrence Act, which would remove Section 230 protections from companies that moderated content using algorithms. Both were responses to conservative complaints that companies including Facebook, Twitter, and Google were selectively enforcing their content guidelines, de-platforming, shadow banning, or otherwise censoring conservatives while mostly leaving liberals alone. Sen. Ted Cruz has also been a vocal critic of platforms in this regard, erroneously asserting that Section 230 includes some kind of political neutrality requirement even though the law doesn't say anything to that effect.

Those complaints have gained steam recently. Despite being one of the biggest beneficiaries of the influence and reach these platforms can afford, President Trump had a recent tantrum over Twitter's decision to fact-check two of his tweets, which contained inaccurate information about mail-in ballots. Soon after, Trump signed his executive order aimed at social media companies, which said platforms that go beyond "good faith" content moderation should not be entitled to Section 230 protections. An executive order is not a law and therefore its impact on an actual law is likely limited, but the right's intention to go after big tech companies was made very clear.

The Trump administration says, "The time is ripe"

While recent bills in Congress have been markedly divisive, Barr's proposed reforms manage to incorporate the issues that both Democrats and Republicans have raised with Section 230. The DOJ called this a "productive middle ground." Note that the department's proposals are simply suggestions for the laws Congress should enact that would actually change things, but they, like the executive order, signal how and why the Trump administration hopes to go after or control large platforms.

One of Barr's recommendations is to withhold immunity from "truly bad actors," which are defined as sites promoting, soliciting, or facilitating content that violates federal law. Sites must also "maintain the ability to assist government authorities to obtain content (i.e. evidence) in a comprehensible, readable, and usable format." This would be the end of services that use end-to-end encryption, which Barr has a particular problem with, and which civil liberties advocates believe will be the ultimate effect of the EARN IT act.

There's also a section that addresses "open discourse and greater transparency." Here, Barr recommends something along the lines of Hawley's bill — that platforms must have clear terms of service for what is and isn't allowed on their platforms and moderate content accordingly. This includes defining "good faith," similar to Hawley's bill, as well as removing the part of the law that says platforms can moderate content that is "otherwise objectionable," as Barr believes the term is too vague and has given platforms the freedom to remove anything simply by saying it's objectionable in some way.

In the background of all of this is a growing public sentiment against powerful tech companies due, in part, to how they help spread fake news and the incredible amounts of personal information about us they collect. That has surely emboldened politicians to act accordingly. Not only do we have multiple bills against Section 230, but there are also ongoing efforts to break up the biggest tech companies through antitrust investigations both in the United States and the European Union.

"The Department of Justice has concluded that the time is ripe to realign the scope of Section 230 with the realities of the modern internet," the recommendations say.

This all adds up to a very real possibility that Section 230, at least as we know it, won't be around for much longer. Hawley's bill, which has no bipartisan support as of now, might go the way his past bills did — that is to say, nowhere. But the EARN IT Act does have bipartisan support and, like FOSTA-SESTA which did pass, targets child sexual abuse. Few politicians may want to vote against a law that says it's meant to combat child porn, regardless of any unintended consequences.

The consequences of changing Section 230 will inevitably change the internet and what we're allowed to do on it. Ruane, from the ACLU, points to the impact of FOSTA-SESTA, which she says "has been a complete and total disaster," and its unintended consequences as a guide for what we can expect. Faced with the new law, online platforms didn't seek to target specific content that might relate to or facilitate sex trafficking; they simply took down everything sex or sex work-related to ensure they wouldn't get in trouble.

"It was only supposed to apply to advertisements for sex trafficking. That is absolutely not what happened," Ruane said. "All platforms adopted much broader content moderation policies that applied to a lot of LGBTQ-related speech, sex education-related speech, and … sites where [sex workers] built communities where they shared information to maintain safety."

She added, "It is astonishing to me that that law is being used as an example of what we should do in the future because of all the clear harms that censoring a broad amount of speech has caused."

As for Wyden, he wrote in a recent op-ed that laws that force platforms to be "politically neutral" may not encourage more speech, as conservatives who favor those laws claim, but rather suppress it. Facebook has taken a similar stance, saying on Wednesday that changing Section 230's liability protections would "mean less speech of all kinds appearing online."

Section 230 won't change tomorrow, if it changes at all. But a series of seemingly coordinated attacks from two of the three branches of government certainly shows some momentum toward the possibility of change.

On one hand, the internet has profoundly changed since the law was introduced 25 years ago and it's not unreasonable to believe that the law should change with it. On the other, those changes likely won't have the impact on the companies they're targeting that lawmakers and the administration seem to desire. The impact will largely fall on the people who use the platforms those companies run: You.


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среда, 3 июня 2020 г.

A brutal video shows a black trans woman getting beat up by dozens of men

Trans lives matter banner during a "We won't be erased" LGBTQ demonstration near the US Embassy in Warsaw on October 30, 2018. | Maciej Luczniewski/NurPhoto via Getty Images

A video posted to Iyanna Dior's Facebook page said she's okay, with some swelling and bruises.

A black trans woman from Minneapolis, Minnesota, was brutally attacked by a group of men Monday, according to a video circulating on social media this week.

The video, which we've chosen not to post or link to due to its graphic nature, shows a group of 20 to 30 cisgender men hitting a woman, Iyanna Dior, outside a convenience store while calling her a homophobic slur. Dior was eventually able to escape behind the counter of the store and through the back of the building, according to the video, while bystanders (and possibly employees) stood between her and her attackers.

Details about the attack on Dior aren't entirely clear, and we will update this story as we learn more, but according to tweet with the video that went viral, the altercation reportedly occurred shortly after a "fender bender."

Dior later posted a video on her Facebook page saying that she was okay and that she suffered some swelling and bruising, as well as minor injuries to her forehead and teeth. She did not respond to a Facebook message seeking more information.

Several high-profile black trans women expressed solidarity with Dior on Tuesday. Janet Mock, executive producer of the FX show Pose, tweeted a thread about the incident, while sharing resources for supporting Dior and other black trans women.

Writer, editor, and activist Raquel Willis reminded folks that black trans people must be included in any Black Lives Matter advocating.

Actress Amiyah Scott similarly expressed disgust over the violence against Dior, noting the timing of the altercation when violence against black people is so front of mind right now. "BLACK TRANS LIVES MATTER TOO," she tweeted.

The attack on Dior is just the latest incident in an epidemic of violence against black trans people, especially women. Several of the recent protests against police violence have mentioned the death of Tony McDade, a trans man from Tallahassee, Florida, who was killed by police during a standoff after he was suspected of stabbing several people in an apartment complex parking lot.

But the beating of Dior and the police killing of McDade are reminders of the disproportionate violence faced by black trans people.

Black trans people are at increased risk of violence

At least 26 transgender or gender-nonconforming people were violently killed last year. Of those, 91 percent were black trans women. According to the 2015 US Transgender Survey, 46 percent of all trans people reported experiencing verbal harassment because of their gender identity in the last year, with nearly 1 in 10 physically attacked over their gender identity. Fifty-three percent of black trans respondents were sexually assaulted in their lifetime and 13 percent were sexually assaulted in the last year.

The reason trans women of color are particularly susceptible to violence involves a complex intersection of their trans identity and race, as well as poverty, overpolicing, and housing.

The Dior incident reveals this complex system of violence. She was beaten while her attackers and onlookers called her a homophobic slur, both misgendering her and attacking her perceived queer identity.

A similar incident happened last April in Dallas, when 22-year-old Muhlaysia Booker was beaten by a man after being in a minor traffic accident earlier in the day. Like the Dior attack, a crowd of onlookers encouraged Booker's beating. Police arrested 29-year-old Edward Thomas in connection with her assault.

Five weeks later, Booker was found shot to death. A 34-year-old man, Kendrell Lyles, was arrested in connection with Booker's killing last June.

In court in October, Thomas's attorney refused to use she/her pronouns for Booker because he felt it might unfairly prejudice the jury against his client. "Read the sex! What does the sex say?" another of Thomas's defense attorneys said when the judge described Booker as a woman.

The attack on Booker, her murder, and the subsequent court battle shows how difficult it can be for black trans women to stay safe and find justice in the legal system when they are attacked on the street. And that injustice is rooted in the systemic discrimination experienced by black trans people.

A lack of employment and housing protections throughout most of the country contributes to financial insecurity for these women. As a result, transgender workers are more likely to be unemployed versus their cisgender counterparts, and 34 percent of black trans women face housing insecurity compared to just 9 percent of nonblack trans people. With astronomically high costs for transition-related surgeries, many trans women end up turning to sex work in order to survive.

Sex workers, particularly trans sex workers of color, face a disproportionately high risk of violence, up to and including murder. The close association between black trans women and sex workers often makes interactions with the police difficult or outright dangerous.

Last year, an NYPD officer testified at a deposition that he would drive down the street looking for women with Adam's apples to stop on suspicion of solicitation. Under the law in New York and many other states, discovery of a condom in a purse is sufficient evidence to arrest a trans woman on prostitution charges. A black trans activist in Arizona was infamously arrested in this fashion in 2014, while another black trans woman traveling through Iowa was arrested after hotel staff called the police suspecting that she was a sex worker.

It's no wonder, then, that 21 percent of black trans women will face incarceration at least once in their lifetimes, according to the National LGBTQ Task Force, significantly higher than the general population.

As the nation struggles over violence against black bodies, attention must be paid to the everyday violence faced by black trans people, especially trans women, too.

Source: vox.com